Trying to find out about my Father who I never met !

Hi....  

Confusingly my adopted fathers name was Donovan ( he lived in East London )

My real fathers name was Thomas Gregan...   would have been born around 1935. He had a brother who lived in England called Michael.   

His Uncles ran the butchers in Ashford...  Mark & Noel Kavenah.  

Hi Paul

I just came across your post. I'm not sure if you managed to find out much given you posted this a year ago but I think I may have some information that could helpful in your search.

Feel free to get in touch if you want.

Thanks

Cas

 

 

 

Hi paul

Have just seen your old post. My father is also Thomas Gregan who came from Ashford and worked for his uncles butchers!  Do you know of his middle name or if he had a sister? I also know little about him if it is the same person!

Thanks

 

 

 

Dave....

Many Thanks for your message.....

Middle name Joseph (I think)   had a sister called Philameana ....

Same person ?

Please get back in-touch

Cheers

Paul

Cas....

Only just read your message... !!!

I've not made any progress since posting my original message....#

... if you have any information it would be much appreciated.

Regards

Paul    (paul@pddp.biz)   07879 811130

 

 

Hi paul

My dads middle name was Raymond so not sure but find it hard to believe they both worked for same butchers and both uncles with same name?!

Were you aware of an incident that took place at the butchers?   Have you a copy of the book pictorial history of Ashford? There is a picture of Tom Gregan at school 1937 who I have been told was my dad. Was your mum Irish. My mum is from East London. What's your mums name?

 

 

 

 

 

 

Hi paul

 

Have you found any further info ? when my dad left Ireland he came to poplar in East london. Do you think same person?

Dave...

Certainly could be the same person...

I sent the following to a local Wicklow newspaper hoping they would investigate...

in 1955 Tom worked in the butchers in Ashford, Co Wicklow. My gran had gone there, from Birmingham, to ask him to come back. His family or Cousins owned / ran the butchers. I remember the name Gregan but are not 100% sure. I also thought he had a brother called Michael. In 1997 my wife, kids and I. visited Ashford,  but found out nothing.  I left it for 5 more years...  then, in 2002 wrote to every Gregan in County Wicklow. Got a phone call from a lady who gave me the following information.... that Tom was my father. She said he had moved to London (Poplar) and had 7 children (one died young) She said that TOM had died around 2000.  he had a sister ... Phyliss ?

I don't know anymore...... what do you know ?

Cheers Paul

Dave...

Certainly could be the same person...

I sent the following to a local Wicklow newspaper hoping they would investigate...

in 1955 Tom worked in the butchers in Ashford, Co Wicklow. My gran had gone there, from Birmingham, to ask him to come back. His family or Cousins owned / ran the butchers. I remember the name Gregan but are not 100% sure. I also thought he had a brother called Michael. In 1997 my wife, kids and I. visited Ashford,  but found out nothing.  I left it for 5 more years...  then, in 2002 wrote to every Gregan in County Wicklow. Got a phone call from a lady who gave me the following information.... that Tom was my father. She said he had moved to London (Poplar) and had 7 children (one died young) She said that TOM had died around 2000.  he had a sister ... Phyliss ?

I don't know anymore...... what do you know ?

Cheers Paul

Dave...

Certainly could be the same person...

I sent the following to a local Wicklow newspaper hoping they would investigate...

in 1955 Tom worked in the butchers in Ashford, Co Wicklow. My gran had gone there, from Birmingham, to ask him to come back. His family or Cousins owned / ran the butchers. I remember the name Gregan but are not 100% sure. I also thought he had a brother called Michael. In 1997 my wife, kids and I. visited Ashford,  but found out nothing.  I left it for 5 more years...  then, in 2002 wrote to every Gregan in County Wicklow. Got a phone call from a lady who gave me the following information.... that Tom was my father. She said he had moved to London (Poplar) and had 7 children (one died young) She said that TOM had died around 2000.  he had a sister ... Phyliss ?

I don't know anymore...... what do you know ?

Cheers Paul

Dave...

Certainly could be the same person...

I sent the following to a local Wicklow newspaper hoping they would investigate...

in 1955 Tom worked in the butchers in Ashford, Co Wicklow. My gran had gone there, from Birmingham, to ask him to come back. His family or Cousins owned / ran the butchers. I remember the name Gregan but are not 100% sure. I also thought he had a brother called Michael. In 1997 my wife, kids and I. visited Ashford,  but found out nothing.  I left it for 5 more years...  then, in 2002 wrote to every Gregan in County Wicklow. Got a phone call from a lady who gave me the following information.... that Tom was my father. She said he had moved to London (Poplar) and had 7 children (one died young) She said that TOM had died around 2000.  he had a sister ... Phyliss ?

I don't know anymore...... what do you know ?

Cheers Paul

Hi pAul

Yes think it's the same person. He died 2001 of lung cancer. He does have a sister called Phyllis . He had a brother but can't remember his name. My brother leam died at 17 years old. Tom was in construction and helped build Blackwell tunnel in poplar. There are 3 more brothers and 3 sisters.  If you want to get in contact leave us your no. I am 52. Not sure on some info re Birmingham but rest seems to be same?!

Hi Paul & Dave

Apologies for the delay in responding. 

I will send a more indepth message tomorrow but my grandmother was Phyllis McDonald (nee Gregan) so therefore Phyllis was my  mother's mother so will sit down with my mother tomorrow and see if we can verify we're all talking about the same person and hopefully provide you both with some further information. May I just check have either of you met your father? Paul, I know you mentioned in your original post you hadn't but Dave did you ever meet him/know him?

Will try my best to get another post up by tomorrow evening with some further info.

Cas

 

 

 

 

Hi cas

Yes I lived with dad til  I was 16 but never spoke of Ireland or much of anything in general. Very quiet man. My brother and sister took him back to Ireland to meet Phyllis before he died. A neighbour told a story about when he worked in butchers . They brought back a book pictorial history of asford . I was told it was dad in it. 2 pictures and of your nan Phyllis?

When he died 2 people  came over from Ireland to represent family.

Do you live in Ireland?

Thanks

Dave

Hi Paul and cas

Last msgs seem to have disappeared? Did you see them? Do we know if same person?

Feel free to contact us if you want to talk! 07913606840

 

Dave

 

 

Hi cas 

Do you have a contact no? Or email address as website didn't seem to be showing msgs?

Thanks

Dave

 

 

 

Hi cas

Did you find out any further info? Could you get in touch please when you have a mo.

Thanks Dave

Email drgregan@gmail.com

07913606840