Dear Antoinette,
My great-great-great grandfather was Robert Renison, married to Jane Eddington. They were married in September 22, 1828, and had twelve children, the last of whom was Robert J. Renison, my great-great grandfather, born September 21, 1853. His daughter, Julia Renison Musser, wrote a memoir of her father, and in the memoir she wrote, "A brother, the one next to my father in age, had been in America. Most of the older brothers and sisters were in South Africa. It was at the time when the diamond mines at Kimberly were the subject of international interest, and were calling many of the young from the older countries who were keen for adventure." The brother was Thomas Renison, who was a lawyer and later judge, in California. My great-great-grandfather Robert J. Renison was a missionary in Canada, and then later in the United States where he became Canon in the Los Angeles diocese. His son Robert John Renison, born in Ireland in 1875 (who was brother to my great-grandfather George), wrote a book "One Day at a Time" in which he wrote, "My father was the youngest of five sons. All I know of my grandfather is that he made it possible for his sons to establish themselves in some of the most remote parts of the world. The eldest son went to Australia, the second to South Africa and the third, Thomas, to California. He wwas the only one of the brothers I ever met. In later life, when I knew him, he was a judge in California. Of the fourth son I know nothing. I can remember seeing my grandfather only once, but he evidentlly was determined that his sons should be as widely separated as possible, whether to preserve them from themselves or the troubles of the times in Ireland I do not know." page 4-5.
Julia Renison Musser's memoir, however, goes into great detail on some aspects of daily life of Robert Renison and Jane Eddington, having heard the stories from her father Robert J. Renison, the son of Robert and Jane. I located one birth record from SHINRONE parish, county Offaly, for a Catherine Rennison, born to Robert Rennison and Jane, on December 20, 1829. Since Robert and Jane were married September 22, 1828 in ROSCREA parish, this may have been their first child. After that birth, I found no records of birth for any of the 11 other children, including Robert my ancestor born in 1853. I have only performed online research, however, and it could be that some parish records are not online.
As far as the name Benjamin, it could be the name of one of the children of Robert and Jane. I do not know the names of the parents of Jane Eddington, but I did find a Benjamin Edington married to Mary Alloway in County Tipperary in ROSCREA Parish, who had several children together. One record is "Not Recorded" Edington, baptised August 2, 1811, born to Benjamin and Mary. Julia Renison's memoir of Canon Renison notes that Jane Eddington was about 42 years old when she had Robert in 1853, so that would be 1811. This could be the birth record of Jane Eddington. A death record for Jane Renison from December 3, 1897 from county Limerick shows she was 88 years old, which would be 1809, fairly close. I cannot rule out that this "NR" baptism in 1811 is of Jane Eddington, born to Benjamin Eddington and Mary Alloway.
The clues above do make me think there may be a connection between your family in South Africa and my family who descended from the younger children who left to Canada and the United States.
Brent William Renison
Oregon, United States of America