I have read the conversation with interest as Mary McGovern is my great grandmother and thereforere my Great Great Grandparents are Peter McGovern and Bridget (Gray) McGovern.
I would like to make contact with Denis Gray who appears to be living on the same land that Bridget is likely to have been brought up on. I have not been able to obtain the Irish Ordnance Survey of 1858 to identify the location of the land. I would also like to make contact with Tom McGettrick who apparently knows which house Peter and Bridget McGovern lived in at Corhuber, Ballymote. My email address is waitepj59@outlook.com, should Denis or Tom read this. I wondered if it would be possible to identify the properties from Google Maps?
I have a copy of the marriage record for Mathew Luby and Mary McGovern dated 3/12/1877 at the Roman Catholic Chapel of Ballymote. They had a daughter also Mary born on 22/8/1879 and the record shows the birth was reported by Bridget McGovern who was present at the birth.
Mary had a second child Robert who is my maternal Grandfather. His birth certificate identifies him as Robert Welfred McGovern with Mary McGovern as his mother but it does not record a father. He was born in Burnley, Lancashire on the 19/12/1884. Interestingly, when he married on 11/4/1908 he identified himself as Robert Looby and recorded his father as Matthew Looby (Shoemaker). Whilst Robert died when I was only 5 years old, I have fond memories of him as he used to stay with us in Bromley. He was keen on horse racing and would stay when there were race meetings in London and the South East of England.
In the 1891 census of England, Mary Looby, her mother Bridget McGovern and her children Mary Looby and Robert Looby are all shown as living a 4 Dixon Terrace, Burnley. I cannot find a later record for Bridget McGovern but Mary Looby (senior) died in January 1894 and was buried in Burnley Cemetary on the 25th January 1894 under the name Mary Luby. When Mary died, the two children were put into the care of a Roman Catholic priest in London. Both children returned to Burmley. Mary was a boarder in Burnley in the 1901 census and Robert married in 1908 in Burnley. I therefore assume Bridget had either died between 1891 and 1894 or she was unable to care for a 14 year old and a 9 year old.
I have a record of Lawrence Luby's death (Matthew Luby's father), on 12/10/1882 reported by Lawrence's widow also Mary. Matthew Luby a shoemaker from Co Sligo then appears on the 1901 census in Pendleton, Salford with his partner (recorded as wife) and a 3 year old daughter, also Mary. Matthew married his partner Mary Quinn on the 24th May 1906. In the marriage record he is identified as a shoemaker with Lawrence Luby (deceased) as his father. So it appears it is the same Matthew Luby who married Mary McGovern in 1877 now marrying again in St Bartholomews Church, Salford. Matthew died in quarter 4 of 1906 at the age of 46. .