Fáilte Tracey!
How far did you cast your parish record net? (Tuohy, Toohy, Toughy, Toughry, Twohig ... ? full list here)
The 1901 Census suggests a connection with the Toweys of the parish of Kilmovee Co. Mayo (which was closeby).
In 1825, Raherolus was home to a Francis Towey [par. Kilmovee].
Aghacureen (par. Tibohine) was home to the Kelly & Hopkins families in 1825 (which explains the over-representation of Kelly names among the godparents)
Mary Kelly (b. 1823) & Francis Tuohy m. 1852 (RC TIBOHINE) wit Peter Kelly & Ann Hopkins
dau. Brigid Tuohy b.1853 (RC TIBOHINE) gp James & Catherine Kelly
dau.Catherine Tuohy b.1854 (RC TIBOHINE) gp John & Ann Kelly | m. Martin Calahan of Cloonboniffe in 1877
dau.Honor Touhy b.1856 (RC TIBOHINE) gp Patrick Tuohy & Honor Kelly | m. Patrick Duffy c. 187?
dau. Anne Tuohy
dau. Mary Touhy
son Thomas Toohy
son Francis Tuohy Jr.
Only the beginning of their family appears on record, there were more children, and some stayed on in Aghacureen/ Augherine.
In 1891, Francis Tuohy (Jr. presumably) godparented for Anne Tuohy & Martin Regan of Augherine (small farmer, married in 1890). In 1893, another sister, Mary Touhy is invited to godparent. This is strong evidence that (a) there are gaps in records, and (b) Tuohys remained in this townland.
It is here, at Anne (nee Towey) Regan's, that we find her mother Mary (nee Kelly) Towey in the 1901 Census.
Next door in 1901, is Andrew Towey (b. 1877 in Co Mayo). Andrew was the son of Michael Towey & Bridget Moran of Ballinrumpa [par. Kilmovee]. By 1911, Andrew has moved and remarried. His uncle, Martin Towey (b. 1842) is residing with him at Ishlaun [adj. Raherolus].
Honor Touhy & Patrick Duffy married 187?
son Martin b. 02-Oct-1880 (RC TIBOHINE) gp Thomas Toohy & Anne Moran
dau. Mary Jane b.1883? > NY?
son Edward b.1884 > Manchester UK
son Charles b.1886? >NY?
dau Honor b.18-Aug-1888 (RC TIBOHINE) gp William Jordan & Honor Duffy
son Michael b.8-Sep-1891 (bap.12th* RC CASTLEREA) gp Martin O Callighan & Catherine Toughy
* Michael's address "England" on the church baptism suggests the father's whereabouts (he was 'gone' looking for work, lost contact). Honoria could have ended up in the workhouse due to illness in pregnancy or poverty. Might Patrick Duffy have died under unfortunate circumstances in England (and not have been identified?)
It is not unusual for
(a) gaps in Civil Birth records (even in the 1930s!) some may have simply not been able to afford the registration fee. Other's gave money to a local 'Registrar' (who took it to the pub instead).
(b) labourers to migrate to England for seasonal work (to pay for rent at home) leave the wife and family behind
(c) extended family members already emigrated, sponsoring a nephew or neice out to the UK or US until they find their feet.
If you dig around the in-laws' baptisms and marriages, you may discover more.
Best of luck!