Dear "Edwardiana" --
Please forgive my delayed response! Life has a habit of interrupting my fun! I was delighted to hear back from you; I had seen on-line that the house was for lease and it sounds as though it has found its way to loving hands. You seem to have very quickly found the information that took me a long time to piece together. Good for you! To my knowledge, everything you wrote is accurate. I actually visited the house when it was being used for social service purposes; the director very kindly invited my sister and I in and showed us around. The house was quite run-down but you could clearly see its former beauty. If I am correct, John Filgate is the landlord? I had some correspondence with his cousin, Caroline Filgate Purcell of Toberdoney House in Dromin. Her father is Richard Filgate who lives at Rathescar House (Dunleer, I think?), another Wm. Filgate descendant. Caroline was going to try and do some research for me but two babies quickly took that off her list.
As best as I can figure, Richard Baillie Henry (b. 1847) was the son of Richard Cooper Henry of Rathnestin House (1802-1886) and his 2nd (or 3rd wife), Elizabeth Baillie. They married in Dublin in 1846; they also had a daughter, Elizabeth Frances Gertrude, born in 1849. Richard Cooper Henry was also married, in 1836, to Elizabeth Needham. A distant relative told me she had died in childbirth the following year. Richard Cooper Henry was the son of John Henry, who died in 1827. This is where it gets complicated!! If I am correct, John Henry had a number of siblings: Alexander, William, George, Thomas, Jane, Sarah, Dorcas. I believe that the family is originially from Broomfield, Co. Monaghan.
The name "Alexander" figures prominently in several generations; the Henry Family also resided at Richardstown Castle. A member of the Dawson family, Catherine Dawson, married Alexander Henry (1756-1796); Caroline Filgate Purcell named her first son Dawson, so there is clearly a connection to that prominent Louth family. Generation after generation, the names Alexander and John appear frequently; I have alot of information on the Henrys but keeping the lines straight, with cousins sharing the same first names, has been very challenging.
I have hit a dead end in terms of who my gr-gr-grandmother Eliza Henry's parents were. If my research is correct, Eliza married Denis Hughes of Dundalk in 1849. My guess is that she was born in the late 1820s/early 1830s. That led me to believe that she was Richard Cooper Henry's daughter; however, his marriage to Elizabeth Needham was later than that. Either he had an earlier wife or I am on the wrong track as to who Eliza's father was. All I know is that the family disowned her, I assume because they disapproved of her husband (possibly because he was Catholic?). I have not been able to find a birth/baptism record for her.
In any case, if you'd like me to send you more details on all of those siblings above, I'm glad to do so. Perhaps John Filgate knows more history, or at least where to find it. Eliza is one of the great mysteries of the family and I am determined to find out who she is!! In the meantime, I hope you are truly enjoying the house and the gorgeous property.
All best,
Judy Rice