lotsahunters,
I think the term townland may be causing some confusion. There usually isn?t a town in a townland. The word town is a bit misleading. Disregard it. Townland is just a term to describe an area of land - a clearly defined area with specific boundaries. So places like Legananny, Moneyslane, Leitrim etc have no town in them. These are rural agricultural areas, with anything from 1 to 150 households, depending on the size of the townland. Legananny consists of 1894 acres and in 1863 it had 113 households.
The reason you can?t find many of these townlands on modern maps is because they are too small to be worth marking. Only certain specialist maps such as Griffiths show them. So if you want to see the boundaries defined, use those.
Townlands are uniquely Irish. No other country uses them. They are nothing like US townships. (Their origins are lost in the mists but some reports say they were designed as a way of sharing the land out fairly. But whatever the explanation they remain a fundamental land unit, and were used in legal documents such as leases and wills and other official records. Most have no road names or (until recently) house numbers. The townland alone was sufficient to identify you, or get a letter delivered. (The postman, and anyone else who needed to know, knew where each family lived).
The nearest town to Legananny is Castlewellan. After that the nearest of any consequence are Banbridge and Ballynahinch. But these would be a full days outing, and so visited just now and again. Those are the towns where a fair would be held. Castlewellan still has one. See link:
http://www.castlewellanshow.com/index.asp
If you google ?Pictures of Drumgooland? you?ll get a few of the local area which should give you an idea of what it looks like. There?s also one of Legananny dolmen (5000 years old), as well as of Legananny school.
It would have been perfectly possible for someone in Legananny to have friends in Dromore or Downpatrick, though they probably wouldn?t have seen them that often. Farming is an activity that required you to stay on the farm much of the time. Cows need milked twice a day and so getting away has always been difficult. Your ancestors may well have had access to horses and carts in which case their options would be wider but for most people walking was the normal method of transport. Most were every fit and so 15 miles a day would be perfectly reasonable if you could be spared from the farm. (My wife?s grandmother lived in Fermanagh and never held a driving licence. She walked everywhere, and often walked 10 or 15 miles a day even into her 70s. That was obviously how it was in the Legananny area too).
Regarding disposal of property on death, you are correct that the eldest son usually got the farm. Where the farmer was successful and had more than one property (and quite a few did) then sometimes a second son got a farm too. But otherwise everything went to no 1 son, provided he was willing to take it on. The main thing was not to subdivide the land between the sons, leaving it all too small to be viable. (That?s why so many sons had to leave and go to America or Scotland, or wherever). And it?s also why the farm was rarely left to the wife. The important thing was to keep it in the family. So you left it to the son, so that it passed to the next generation. The widow was then given a life interest. That is to say she could live in it, but on her death it passed entirely to the designated son. Should the widow remarry her life interest would lapse. (A remarriage could otherwise lead to the farm passing on to someone other than the designated son). It was all about protecting the land for the next generation. The references to kitches etc was the farmer trying to deal with the possible awkward siutation whereby his son and daughter in law did not get on with his widow. (Not an uncommon situation). So you often see detailed instruction on what is to happen if they start fighting. I have seen instructions on where dividing walls are to be erected and new entrance doors knocked through. Likewise you often see reference to the provision of milk, potatoes, linen and the use of the good parlour on Sundays. All intended to try and keep the peace. Unmarried daughters were often given the right to live on the farm till they married or reached say 30 years of age. (No pressure there then!).
Concern for the land is probably a strong factor in all cultures but if you want a good idea of how it is regarded in Ireland, I can recommend the film ?The Field? which is based on a play that sums it up perfectly. See:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0099566/
"Bull" McCabe's family has farmed a field for generations, sacrificing endlessly for the sake of the land. And when the widow who owns the field decides to sell the field in a public auction, McCabe knows that he must own it. But while no one in the village would dare bid against him, an American with deep pockets decides that he needs the field to build a highway. The Bull and his son decide to convince the American to give up bidding on the field, but things go horribly wrong.
I am puzzled about your reference to a hall. It?s not something that a farmer would routinely build. (A barn yes, but not a hill). Was it by any chance an Orange Hall (ie for the use of the Orange Lodge)? Can you give me an example of where there is reference to it, and I might be able to help you more with that query.
Elwyn