Hi, husband Tim Herlihy and I visited Ballyvourney from Australia in May 2016. We have Kelleher connections. It is a lovely place with wonderful historic connections and wonderful current day attractions like good food and friendly welcoming people. There is a new (RC) church in the Main Street with a cemetery behind it, but you probably want to go to the old cemetery which has the original stone church with the roof now open to the skies and also a later protestant church, which might or might not be in use. The old cemetery is a lovely place with a statue of St Gobnait near the remains of what was her house, and on the way you pass the 'holy' well which was probably pre St Gobnait but re badged as her well. There is a 'Stations' circuit there which is followed at least once a year for St Gobnait. Do you know her story? The Herlihys (who were already there in Ballyvourney) were converted to Christianity by St Gobnait around 550AD, and gave her some land for a church and allocated a few family members as protectors. Sadly there are few Herlihys there now - their lands were taken during Cromwell's time - there were more when we first visited in 2003. Some Kellehers and Herlihys went across to the USA together and intermarried there - maybe Seattle? Though one lot we are in touch with once removed (Frank Herlihy) were in Chicago.
We had a car, and met a relation with a car, so sorry can't suggest transport. We stayed at Peggy Twomey's B&B, 'Weston House', which we thoroughly recommend for Irishness and Peggy has been running it for 40 years so what she doesn't know about Ballyvourney is hardly worth knowing - I'd ask her about transport! She was helpful with where to buy things and the doctor etc etc etc. The Mills, Ballyvourney, Macroom. P12 AH39 phone: +353 (0) 26 450 97. Mobile +353 (0) 86 167 8388. We didn't use email but the entry in the B&B book says there is an email: weston_house@hotmail.com and a website westonhouse.ie, but I couldn't get the website to come up just now.
I suggest you email Tim's Herlihy Uncle (Pat Herlihy) at psherlihy166@btinternet.com or ballyvourney3501@gmail.com since he has written a book called Ballyvourney 3501. He is the relative we met there who showed us around, but he lives in England. He is in touch with Herlihys and relations in Ireland. He might know the Kelleher connections or graves, or be able to suggest something.
Have a lovely time - we intend to return to Ballyvourney if possible - it was one of our best experiences on our last trip.
I'll post some pics if I can figure out how; not if not!!
All the best
Paula & Tim Herlihy,
Melbourne Australia