THANK YOU for posting, @carraige! Can you tell me where the baptism record of Francis of Pat Coskry/Toner is located? Is it online yet or a record in a repository?
Since I posted this, in 2014, I've found so much collateral material online and in 2017 I was in the Armagh County Museum Archives for a day looking at the records of the Earl of Charlemont. I am confident that the Francis Coskery/Coskry/Cosgrove who married Margaret Quinn in 1857 and is the father of my James, born in 1862, is the Francis you found in the baptism records, so having that record is VERY important to me!
It's interesting...if you read the comments from "Research Gal", it turns out we ARE related; my father (James Cosgrove) and her brother (Arthur Cosgrove) are YDNA matches. The DNA has been extremely helpful in providing additional information and I'm constantly reviewing any additional matches to see if I can locate others in these branches of this family.
If it's possible to provide a link to that baptismal record here and/or send it to my email at archivalbiz@gmail.com, I would be eternally grateful!!! I also appreciate the additional insight of the John Cosgrove/Mary Sherry union; while I was in NI I stopped in at the Ballymacnab Chapel where the priest suggested I go to see John Cosgrove...which I did. I was so overwhelmed by the whole experience I didn't think to get additional information from him, other than his grandfather and/or greatgrandfather was a John Cosgrove who married a Margaret Gollogly (that surname, along with Vallely and Toner were ubiquitous in the records of the Earl of Charlemont). Anyway...can you tell I'm excited by your post?
Thank you again, have a great evening!! Cheers, Laura