Hi,
Bob thank you very much for your message. I hope that someone with information makes a connection with you and helps you to further your research.
In the meantime, have you tried looking in church record for more information? Catholic records for Kirkinriola/Ballymena start as early as 1836:
http://www.irishtimes.com/ancestor/fuses/rcparishmaps/index.cfm?fuseaction=showidrecords&CityCounty=Antrim&parish=Kirkinriola&churchid=394
Most Catholic records are held locally so you may need to write to the local parish priest for possible assistance. Alternatively, as you can see from the above link the Ulster Historical Foundation have copies available. Here is their email if you would like to contact them, please note however that a fee may apply:
enquiry@uhf.org.uk
Civil registration became mandatory in Ireland in Ireland in 1864 so you should also be able to find a civil record of Mary?s birth. Civil records are available from the GRO, here are their contact details:
General Register Office
Government Offices
Convent Road
Roscommon
Ireland
Tel:+353 90 663 2900
Locall:1890 25 20 76
Fax:+353 90 663 2999
Homepage: http://www.groireland.ie/
Have you already tried searching for the McElroys/McIlroys in the 1901/1911 census records? If you have not, you can do so here:
http://www.census.nationalarchives.ie/
Have you looked for record of the family in the parish in Griffith?s Valuation? This is a property valuation survey carried out in Ireland 1848-64. Here are the McElroys recorded in the parish:
http://www.askaboutireland.ie/griffith-valuation/index.xml?action=doNameSearch&Submit.x=44&Submit.y=22&Submit=Submit&familyname=mcelroy&firstname=First+Name&baronyname=&countyname=ANTRIM&unionname=&parishname=KIRKINRIOLA
Here are the McIlroys: http://www.askaboutireland.ie/griffith-valuation/index.xml?action=doNameSearch&Submit.x=20&Submit.y=6&Submit=Submit&familyname=mcilroy&firstname=First+Name&baronyname=&countyname=ANTRIM&unionname=&parishname=KIRKINRIOLA
Some other websites that you may find useful are:
The National Archives of Ireland http://www.nationalarchives.ie/genealogy1/genealogy-records/introduction/
The National Library of Ireland http://www.nli.ie/en/family-history-introduction.aspx
The National Archives UK ? genealogy search: http://www.nationalarchives.gov.uk/records/looking-for-person/
The Public Records Office of Northern Ireland http://www.proni.gov.uk/index/family_history.htm
Irish Genealogy Tool kit: http://www.irish-genealogy-toolkit.com/
Genealogy Links: http://www.genealogylinks.net/uk/ireland/antrim/index.html
From Ireland: www.from-ireland.net
IGP: http://www.igp-web.com/antrim/
Please be patient - as our programme has only begun to rollout across the island of Ireland and volunteers in some areas may not yet be organized.
Kind regards,
Genealogy Support