Hi Vonnie! I think we may have a connection....somehow. My Totton line were in the same area, at the same time, as your William Totton....and there weren't many Tottons/Tottens! My gtgtG John Totton was baptised at Soldierstown, Aghalee, in 1814. His parents were John Totton and Mary Montgomery who were married at Glenavy Parish Church in 1813. John Totton senior (my gtgtgtG) was born about 1790. These two generations (wives and children of the two John Tottons) lived and farmed in the Deerpark Townland in the parish of Glenavy. I have been able to reconnect with descendants in the area and confirmed the connection to our family here in New Zealand. We also have a very close cousin in the US (confirmed by DNA testing), and other branches in England, Canada and Australia.
There are various family stories - the Tottons were Ulster Scots, they came over from Scotland to work as gamekeepers (or gatekeepers or both) on the Hertford estate, they came originally (pre Scotland) from Tottenham in London......Interesting, but not yet confirmed.
Any information you have on William Totton, Margaret, or any other family member, would be a great help. Our Irish cousins mostly use the "en" spelling of the surname, but a branch in England consistently spell the name as we do with the "on" ending. The two spellings seem to be interchangeable.
Looking forward to your feedback...and as an aside, just wondered if your line is the Carswell line I spotted on the net? If so, your Totton family must have been amongst the earliest settlers in Drummond, Lanark Co. I came across the site coincidentally while hunting the Carswell surname which is also in my family.
Cheers, Treeseeker