William Joseph Coleman (GG) - Soldier in Boer War
Dear, I trust you are well and keeping safe during these difficult times. I would appreciate your help on the matter below as I'm pulling my hair out trying to figure this out.
My great-grandfather (GG) came to South Africa around 1897 to fight in the South African (Boer) war. I analysed over 100 Colemans that came to South Africa as soldiers and narrowed it down to one person based on when my great-grandmother had their first child (3/9/1899) and the arrival of William Coleman (12/11/1897) according military records. The same military record states his Parish as St Patricks in Waterford. I have baptism records and birth records that appear to match this, except for the Parish which is different - Kilkenny no. 2 versus St Patricks - I'm learning so forgive the ignorance.
I'm desperately trying to find proof that this is the same W.Coleman that is my GG. GG appeared to remain in South Africa and had 4 more children, my grandmother is one. Using simple date calculations as I cannot find a single date of birth for him in South Africa that could tie this all together is credible but not validated. The date of birth I have for a person I'm not 100% sure of is 2/2/1874. There's no verifiable death record in South Africa except for one that appears within the date range - so date of death could be 22 Dec 1923. GG's wife died in December 1930 and the record states she was a widow. GG would have died between 1916 (after the birth/death of his son Edward) and 1930.
GG has a beautiful signature on his marriage certificate and death record of his baby - are their signature samples in Ireland that could be compared, what else could I use to qualify or disqualify GG?
I have not been lazy, although admit that I'm new at this even though I have been searching for two years. I have searched on Irish geneaology, Ireland Census 1901/1911, findmypast, myheritage, ancestry, NLI, lots of Boer war records.
I'm so worried that this affinity I feel for the person found may blind me therefore finding proof is important to me discovering our real Irish connections.
I'm grateful for the help.
