Thanks Roger & Margot.
I have tested my DNA, my daughter, half brother (from correct branch), a 4th cousin & her mother have tested & we found another half 4th cousin from Anne McCarthy. However I'm wondering if the half is a full cousin (this weeks theory).
The half 4th cousin believe's Anne's mothers maiden name was Shea.
Anne McCarthy somewhere between being born & 1843 arrived in NSW, Australia.
The above first mentioned 4th cousin, her & I both know we descend from Anne McCarthy and her children born McGill. There is NO paper trail of her 'husband' Michael McGill (sometimes Gill) except on his children's baptism records. Anne's last husband who was informant on her death certificate had things wrong, including putting his own daughter with Anne on the 'first marriage' list of children.
Anne's story is confusing, frustrating & in places makes NO sense. But I'll give it a go.
Born c 1818 in Cork, Munster, Ireland. (that's the easy bit done)
The above mentioned HALF 4th cousin descends from Anne's apparent 'first relationship' with a Thomas Cole. Their daughter Ann born c1845 in Goulburn NSW. (she married Mr J. Noble)
At some point Anne marries Michael McGill/Gill. They had Richard born 17 April 1844 in Lachlan River NSW (exactly! already dates are off).
She then had Winifred McGill 18 Feb 1845 (first 4th Cousin mentioned descends from her).
Annie McGill c 1846 (yes why would you name daughters Ann & Annie?! plus circa same year - hence my thoughts the men are the same person)
Denis 1848, Mary (I descend from) 1850, Michael 1851, Bridget 1855.
There is no marriage found for Michael McGill & Ann McCarthy. There is no Death Cert for Michael McGill.
Anne McCarthy then has daughter Sarah McDonald with Mr John McDonald in 1861. (DNA matches).
Somewhere between 1855 & 1860 Michael McGill took off, kicked out. However Anne I believe must have been married to him as she didn't marry John McDonald until 1885 only to die 6months later. Why would she wait 20 years to marry otherwise? On her marriage cert to John she uses "McGill" and "widow". Also no parent names are stated.
Anne's Death certificate the informant being John McDonald makes a real mess of the information.
Says Anne's first marriage she was aged 15 in Ireland to a Moran Brown information my Mum found (before she passed) has the date of marriage 27 Nov 1835, Churchtown, Liscarrol. (RC) and lists Maurice Brown. John McDonald lists the following for Children of Issue to "Moran Brown", Michael 38, Dennis, 34, Andrew 34, Ann 32, Minnie 30, Mary 28, Bridget 26 & Sarah 24. He lists NO children under his marriage with her. I can understand why.
After reading this I think where is Andrew? we've never found him. But if Anne married at 15 why did she not have her first child until she was 27? (give or take a year) That's the big one for me. John does list a father for Anne says is Dennis McCarthy and he was a farmer.
Also Minnie would be Winnie, where is Richard in the list of children? where is the 'other' Ann/Annie?
Majority of these questions I'm not asking for answers to, I'm simply stating all the messed up, backwards, bang head against wall information there is.
I know I'm related to Winifred & Bridget McGill's descendants, Sarah McDonald, and Ann Cole/? who married Mr J Noble. That covers all 3 sets of children from apparently 3 different men, leaving us again with Mr Moran/Maurice Brown!
My theory is Moran/Maurice/Thomas & Michael McGill are all the same man. Ann Cole & Annie McGIll could be possibly the same person & a full cousin not half. Ann Cole's Death Cert does list her maiden name as Cole her marriage cert lists it as Coal. I've yet to find evidence amongst Mum's papers that show Annie McGill was born to Michael & Ann.
So I do have information about Anne. I'd simply like to discover her parents, siblings, when & why she came to Australia. I did find several Anne McCarthy's on passenger lists. But still left open a few possibles from memory.
If you understood all that, well done it's taken me a year to unscramble what Mum had in her database, hard copies, tracking down the 'other' cousins to start making sense of it.
Thank you & sorry for the length & if I confused you.
Kylie :)