Margaret,
In relation to Thomas Stack, I make the following comments:
Thomas Stack married Anne Griffin in the Diocese of Cloyne, Co. Cork in 1837 - Parents names not recorded,
Birth of a Richard Thomas Stack in Athlone in November 1840 - Parents Thomas Stack and Anne Griffin. Over the surname "Stack" are initials which appear to "be RG and Ch". Page 258 Parish Register. Could those initials refer to the Cheshire Regiment? List of Overseas events for 1840 records a "Thomas Stack" in Athlone in 1840 which appears to be the birth of Richard Thomas Stack.
1841: record of a Thomas Stack, Colour Sergeant, 22nd Regiment of Foot being in Poona, India.
I851: Thomas Stack, Lieutenant in 22nd Regt. (Cheshires)
Is this the same man who married Anne Griffin in 1837?
What is your connection to South Africa? Was Thomas Stack transferred to there?
In relation to the death of Anne Stack in 1861. Do you have any confirmation that this was "Anne Griffin Stack" i.e Death Record
Any knowledge of the death of Thomas Stack, 22nd Regt. of Foot?
Please excuse the manner of this Post which is intended ti identify tour
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