Hiya Roger,
My great grandfather was indeed Thomas and many thanks for that. But it's now blown my long held belief right out of the water that Ellen, my grandmother, was born in Limerick City to Patrick and Mary Madden. The marriage of John Stundon and Ellen Madden states that Edmond Madden was her father and that they came from Sandford, near Causeway in Kerry. Of course, there is no immediate trace of them but I must confess, I haven't looked that hard yet.
That's the problem with hunting down your roots, you find that much of what you think you know or have been told is completely wrong! Still, I have discovered so much to pass on to my grandchildren and I hope they visit Ireland, particularly Kerry and Limerick when they're old enough to want to learn. What's more, whilst it can be very frustrating, it's so enjoyable when things fall into place.
BTW, My dad's sister Mary (Maura to all who knew her) along with the mysterious John and Ned Conway, earned a paragraph or two in Oriana Atkinson's book, "The South And The West Of It". It's a wonderful little snapshot of her everyday life in the cottage and all that was important to this ordinary Irish lady. If it's legal to pass on, I have an electronic copy her if you'd like to read it.