Hi Cathy,
So sorry for not repling sooner- I never even saw your reply until just now! I did some additional research today and thought i'd send on the following- you may have progressed in your search and already found these- but just in case:
This is the Roots Ireland transcription for what I though may have been Patrick Barlow's birth record:
Name:Patrick BarlowDate of Birth:
Date of Baptism:31-Mar-1821Address:Johns GreenParish/District:ST. JOHN'SGender:MaleCountyCo. Kilkenny
Denomination:Roman Catholic
Father:John BarlowMother:Elizabeth BarlowOccupation:
Sponsor 1 /
Informant 1:Edmund Fitzpatrick Sponsor 2 /
Informant 2:Mary Murphy
John Barlow and Elizabeth McGarry also had the following children:
Name:Margaret BarlowDate of Birth:
Date of Baptism:06-Jun-1816Address:Upper John StreetParish/District:ST. JOHN'SGender:FemaleCountyCo. Kilkenny
Denomination:Roman Catholic
Father:John BarlowMother:Elizabeth MacgannyOccupation:
Sponsor 1 /
Informant 1:William Machugh Sponsor 2 /
Informant 2:Sally Culehan
Name:Anastatia BarlowDate of Birth:
Date of Baptism:29-May-1819Address:Johns GreenParish/District:ST. JOHN'SGender:FemaleCountyCo. Kilkenny
Denomination:Roman Catholic
Father:John BarlowMother:Elizabeth MaganyOccupation:
Sponsor 1 /
Informant 1:Thomas Butler Sponsor 2 /
Informant 2:Anastatia Purcell
Name:John BarlowDate of Birth:
Date of Baptism:09-May-1824Address:GreenParish/District:ST. JOHN'SGender:MaleCountyCo. Kilkenny
Denomination:Roman Catholic
Father:John BarlowMother:Elizabeth MagarryOccupation:
Sponsor 1 /
Informant 1:James Doyle Sponsor 2 /
Informant 2:Mary Murphy
The marraige record for Patrick and Mary Anne above in an earlier message nearly has to be them- Barlow is an unusual surname and the record is a good match for the details you mentioned. Then they would have married in 1851 and left for Illinois before 1853 so we would be looking just for a Patrick and Mary Barlow on passenger lists most likely unless there were additional children born in Ireland who died young. Mary Anne's parents are most likely Joseph Kelly and Anne Brennan based on children's names.
Name:Mary KellyDate of Birth:
Date of Baptism:26-Feb-1830Address:Not RecordedParish/District:ST. MARY'SGender:FemaleCountyCo. Kilkenny
Denomination:Roman Catholic
Father:Joseph KellyMother:Anne BrenanOccupation:
Sponsor 1 /
Informant 1:Bridget Bolton
I would recommend rootsireland.ie for researching your Irish roots- it has an excellent collection of parish registers. Whats especially useful for breaking down brick walls is studying godparents and witnesses to baptisms and marraiges. One of my cousins who has done extensive genealogy research says in the nineteenth century, witnesses to a marraige were mostly first cousins and godparents either siblings or in laws. Maiden names of godparents are nearly always given on the register.
Best of luck with your research,
Alicia