Elwyn …………
When I asked about the Irish Post Card I didn’t mean for it to turn into a research project on your part, I was expecting something like it was a common practice in the early 1900s for folks to take grave stone pictures and to sell or give them to the family, but thank you for doing more than I expected.
Between what my mother told me, your information, and some I dug up in the last week or so, I think I have a reasonable picture of these individuals in this family, so I will tell you a story based on this information to see what you think. But before I do let me add two more players: Mary Ann McArdle and her sister Ellen McArdle (both born in Westport, Canada).
According to my mother, based on discussions with her uncle William Fleming, his father Miles Arthur Fleming was born in County Wexford on August 15, 1847 [we now know he was born in Ballykelly, Piercetown, Wexford]. According to Uncle Bill, Miles’ older brother James Fleming and a friend of his a Mr. Egan paid $40 apiece for their passage from Ireland to New York. After they had been there awhile both James and Mr. Egan sent $40 apiece back to Ireland to pay for Miles Fleming and Mr. Egan’s brother to come to America. They arrived in New York penniless in either 1865 or 1866. Miles listed both dates on census forms, 1865 was listed when he was younger. They then worked all winter in a New York brick yard and saved their money, got to Chicago and then took a boat up the Mississippi River to Lake City, Minnesota. I do not know what happened to James Fleming or to either of the Egans, however, Miles Fleming [my great-grandfather] married Mary Ann McArdle of Westport in Wabasha County Minnesota on May 20, 1874, raised their family and ended up in Bear Creek Township, Emmet County, Michigan where he died on January 23, 1923.
The rest of the story, which I just sorted out, based on your information and on RC Church Registers from the National Library of Ireland is as follows: Miles parents were James Fleming and Bridget Howlin who were married on February 14, 1831 in Piercetown. They had the following children all born in Ballykelly and baptized on the dates listed: Ellen-7 Jan 1832, James-8 Jan 1835, Mary- 19 Mar 1838, Ellen- 27 Jun 1841, Francis- 12 Jun 1844, Miles- 15 Aug 1847, Ellen- 25 Mar 1850. Not sure why 3 Ellen’s, I understand if one died that name would be used again, but I do not think this is the case here.
I did find a marriage record for whom I believe to be Ellen (1841) marrying a William Underwood [the father listed on the grave marker, I should note that my mother told me that Ellen McArdle married an Underwood – I think she may have mixed up the Ellen’s]. Based on the facts that: the fathers are all James Flemings, that the Underwood’s are related to the Flemings, the names are all on the same marker, plus the fact that the generational dates all seem to work, I am of the opinion that the James and Bridcet Flemings shown on the grave marker are Miles grandparents. I have almost no clue as to how the Doyle’s fit into this picture and they are not a priority for me, but the fact that somebody added a Doyle name in pen on the post card I think helps support my opinion.
Having said all the above, I have three questions (sorry):
1. Do you think my story is more or less correct?
2. Are death dates available in Ireland for Miles brothers and sisters?
3. What is your best guess as to the route James and Miles would have taken to New York?
Sorry this is so long, but I thought you would like to know how your help worked out. I’m not sure how Ireland XO is organized but I suspect you may be nowhere near County Wexford and my questions are becoming more centered on County Wexford, so if it makes sense to have somebody else closer to County Wexford become involved I fully understand.
Thanks,
Phil