Sandie:
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The free site www.irishgenealogy.ie has images of death records from 1878-1969 but for 1864-1877 we only have index records. I located a Julia Roche death index record in the fourth quarter of 1869 in the Newcastle registration district (which covers Abbeyfeale). This Julia was shown as age 0 so likely this is the death record for the first Julia Roche.
Group Registration IDN/RSR District/Reg AreaNewcastleDeceased Age at Death0Returns Year1869Returns Quarter4Returns Volume No20Returns Page No345
I then went on the subscription site Roots Ireland and they had more info. Julia died on September 13, 1869 from convulsions
Name:JuliaRocheDate of Death:13-Sep-1869
Age:1 MonthsParish / District:ABBEYFEALEAddress:CahirCounty:Co. LimerickStatus:
Denomination:Civil RecordOccupation:
Sex:Female
Informant
Name:John Roche
Notes: CONVULSIONS
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