Thanks Roger.
1. I have a record from the 1821 census for a Bernard Fay (47) Farmer, wife Ann (35), Mary (11), Hugh (7), Rose (5), Thomas Coyle (70 - wife's father) living in house number 18, Corcloghan in the parish of Castletara. This would place Hugh's (senior) DOB as 1814, which is not inconsistent with Hugh snr being the father of my Hugh Fay, DOB circa 1843. I am beginning to think this might be my ancestral family. But I have no firm evdence.
The 1857 Griffiths Valuation record that you found for Bernard Fay is Lot 29 in the townland of Drumnagran, which shares its NE boundary with Tullyvin, where Hugh Fay jnr was born. Bernard would have been about 83 years old in 1857, but the valuation for that townland might have been completed some years earlier? If Bernard Fay moved from Corcloghan to Drumnagran, next door to Tullyvin, he might have moved to be closer to his son in his older years.? Possible siblings for Hugh jnr are Terence Fay (~1840), Mary Fay (~1841) and maybe Patrick Fay (~1848). The mother of Hugh and his siblings was Susan Fay (McCabe)
2. I have found no marriage records for Susan McCabe and Hugh Fay snr. But I do have baptism records for a Susan McCabe baptised 10 September 1821 to parents Patrick McCabe and Anne Olvany in Urney RC parish County Cavan. I also have a 1821 census record for Patrick McCabe (32) Farmer, Anne (23) Wife and Robert (3) son from Lower Behey Townland, Parish Annageliffe, County Cavan, which would be just a couple months before daughter Susan was born. Does this seem logical to you?
3. Hugh Fay jnr married in 1882, Australia Mary McCaffrey (parents Patrick McCaffrey b 1818 Killyfana Redhills, County Cavan and Bridget Gaffney b 1829 Derryhoo, Belturbet County Cavan). Mary McCaffrey born 1857 ~ 1862, Killyfana Redhills, County Cavan. Possible siblings include Patrick b ~ 1860; Thomas b 1882; Bridget b 1865 (Parish Annagh, not Killyfana); John b 1869 Killyfana, Redhills; Catherine b 1872 Ballyhaise, County Cavan; and James b 1875 Killyfana, Redhills.
Maybe Bridget and Catherine had different parents to Mary?
So you see I have lots of possible family information, but without marriage or birth/baptism details I have not found confirmation of Hugh Fay jnr and Mary Fay (McCaffrey) families in County Cavan. I think I'm pretty close.
Can you advise wherre I might find specific information?I have exhausted my accessible online sources, and am down to manually searching hand-written parish records, where they exist.
Cheers,
Peter.