Hey Jack, If you create a free ancestry.com acct I can add you to the Packie Duffy tree I have as well as the shadow tree I made from this thread so you can peruse them at your leisure. My email is mairin at gmail - drop me an email and I can send you an invite.
It is unclear to me if my family has a connection to Packie or not - I just know that the families were close. There are many photos of my grandpa and Packie and Packie at our family farm helping out with the haying. The problem w my family knowledge going way back here is my grandpa was the youngest of 7, and his dad died when he was like 3 years old. I know quite a few things passed on by his elder sisters / my great aunts, but not to the depth you'd wish for. I too have mass cards and other papers and photo albums that have helped fill the gaps besides records.
Some of the Irish govt records lost in the fire - at least substitutes for them - are planned to be released next year. They kept the burnt materials until tech could recover them and apparently the tech exists now. I am trying not to get my hopes up too much but next year will be interesting for Irish genealogists :-)
I have not done DNA but two of my Duffy cousins have, so if anyone in your line has, at least on AncestryDNA, I can check for a connection.
You are smart to start out w free resources. I went that way until I hit a total brick wall and then eased into Ancestry databases w free public library access and when COVID hit I couldn't resist temptation and got a subscription.
I have been to Drumbrone (my family always spelled it Drumbrawn fwiw, and it was also sometimes spelled Drumbroan in records) as well as both Magheracloone churches, our Duffys went to St Peter and Paul and have a stone there in the old section.
Actually I just randomly happened to find Alice Martin's grave at St. Peter and Paul's... it's the black one in the background here:
https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/200984354/annie-martin
One free resource you might find useful for the NY side of your family history is fultonsearch.org which is just recently back online. The newspaper to look for is the Irish American Advocate out of manhattan altho it covered all buroughs. The gossip pages are full of great info, and it was a long running paper. The Brooklyn Daily Eagle archives are also free thru the Brooklyn Public Library website and also have Irish American info from across the boroughs.
Let me see if I have anything for the parents you're looking for. You're probably well-aware of the NLI website's Catholic parish register books for Magheracloone. They are certainly not too easy to decipher and the scans for many pages are in poor condition and there are no death records.... but sometimes they can surprise you.
There is also a PDF written by Patrick Duffy I believe from PRONI on their websitr re: the Shirley Estate papers and it has info about various families in the area w names, many whom were sent abroad during the Famine.
Finally there is a letter transcribed and published by the Clogher Record in 2001 of a rent relief letter signed presumably by most of the families in Magheraclone during 1847, it has a long list of names + townlands. It can be had for free if you sign up for a free limited acct w the journal archive service (I think jstor?) Anyway I'll save you the effort, I have it handy, I can give you a list of all the signees from 1847 in Drumbrone and who i know and who I dont:
Peter McNamurrig (typically nglicized Murry) - I think this is a relation of my distant cousin I mentioned earlier
Patt Duffy - I think this is your man
John Crawley - ?
John Duffy - bootmaker who lived next door to my Duffys, his son was James who married Margaret Reilly
Bryan Duffy - that's my ggrandfather
Thomas Duffy - ?
Hugh Duffy - ?
The Tithe Applotment books from 1832 from Drumbrone are also smtg to check for going back further, here is that:
http://titheapplotmentbooks.nationalarchives.ie/search/tab/results.jsp?…
We've got there in 1832 the following fellows (and lady):
- James Crosby
- Hugh Duffy
- Patk Sr.
- Peter Duffy
- Owen Duffy Sr.
- Thomas Duffy Jr.
- Thomas Duffy Sr.
- Cormick Duffy
- Andrew Duffy
- Patk Duffy Jr.
- Felix Keenan
- Peter McNamurrig (Murry)
- Thomas McNamurrig
- Margaret Marron
- James Mohan
- George Mohan
I am assuming the Patricks there are your guys as well. I've no clue who my guy is that list if I have one there. Bryan was probably too young to be listed there, his father may well be on that list.
In trying to determine who it might be... well I know where the family house is and what plot. The 1861 Griffiths valuation for Drumbrone has maps with the plot lines and also lists the acreage. I waa hoping to compare acreage to see if I could determine which farm was the same one (yes huge assumption that the plots didnt change, they likely did) however between 1832 tithe applotment books and 1861 griffiths valuation, it is my understanding the unit of acreage changed and I do not know the conversion factor.
Anyway hope that helps, I will check on the folks you're looking to go back further on and see if I can find anything w what I know / have access to.